In celebration of Pride Month, Special Collections will be highlighting materials in our collections that are by or related to members of the LGBT community. Today, we will be exploring one of the first children’s books to depict LGBTQ parents and the first children’s book to specifically depict lesbian parents: Lesléa Newman’s Heather Has Two Mommies.
Newman wrote Heather Has Two Mommies in 1989 after a conversation with her friend, Amy Jacobson, who was about to send her daughter to daycare. Jacobson and her partner knew that other children would ask her about her unique family structure, and they weren’t sure how to prepare her for these questions. Jacobson told Newman that someone should write a children’s books about same-sex parents, and Newman decided that someone might as well be her.
Newman wrote the book in a matter of weeks and Diana Souza provided the illustrations. Publishers were uninterested in the project, so Newman co-published the book with her friend Tzivia Gover. Because they were self-publishing, they could only afford to have black-and-white illustrations. Alyson Publications picked up the book in 1990, creating the version we have in the Washington University Libraries’ Children’s Literature Collection.
Heather Causes Controversy
In 1992, Heather Has Two Mommies caused a huge controversy when it, along with Daddy’s Roommate and Gloria Goes to Gay Pride, was included in New York City’s “Children of the Rainbow” curriculum, which was meant to teach first graders to respect different racial and ethnic groups. The proposed curriculum, intended to bring tolerance, ended up dividing the city as the president of the District 24 school board in Queens called it “dangerously misleading lesbian/homosexual propaganda” and refused to adopt it. The controversy spread throughout the nation, inspiring opinion pieces in almost every major newspaper, including several in our own city’s St. Louis Post-Dispatch.
The controversy regarding the curriculum was the start of harsh backlash against the LGBTQ community. A conservative political group in Oregon tried to use Heather Has Two Mommies and Daddy’s Roommate to scare parents into thinking that the LGBTQ community was trying to “indoctrinate” their children, attempting to pass an anti-homosexual referendum to classify homosexuality as “abnormal” and “perverse” and to allow discrimination against homosexuals. Colorado also considered a measure to remove protection for homosexuals in the same year.
Heather Has Two Mommies Today
Close to twenty years after it was originally published, Heather Has Two Mommies is now considered an early forerunner in a growing genre of LGBTQ children’s literature. It has inspired other children’s books about non-traditional families, including And Tango Makes Three, Mommy’s Family, My Two Mommies, and many others.
Newman herself, who had never written a children’s book before Heather Has Two Mommies, has now published over 25 picture books for children, including two additional children’s books about same-sex parents, Daddy, Papa, and Me and Mommy, Mama, and Me. An updated version of Heather Has Two Mommies with color illustrations by Laura Cornell was released by Candlewick Press in 2015.
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